UHNW & HNW Women: On the subject of you
On the subject of you...
how are you managing the impacts to your reality on your day to day professional, personal and social journey.
You are delving into instant gratification. You want everything within a short space of time. You are still following the dream that you expect from your affluent lifestyle. The contentedness. The love. The happiness. The relationship with yourself. The relationship with a true partner who accepts you for you. The relationship with a close group of friends. The relationship with others that have a stake in your life. Instead of ease it is more like work. An uphill struggle on some days. How is this the dream that you longed for? How is this the dream that you continually follow, hoping that situations will get better.
Each day you take a dessertspoon of self doubt and a pill labelled dread. No matter how hard you try, you keep feeding yourself this medicine to stay comatosed in the void zone. How is that working out for you today? Is it making you any more joyous?
You are struggling against those that dampen your ability to engage with your own self motivation, self discipline, self validation and self reinforcement. You are consistently answerable to business partners. Having to quantify how hard and how smart that you work with the tools of your trade to others that have a vested interest in you.
You want projects to organically come to you, almost like assignments, to strengthen your ability in managing your emotional experiences as a professional in order to surpass the resistance around you.
You want to manage your expectations and learn how to better deal with your ‘failures’ through your levels of aspirations.
You are trying hard to achieve something, yet you are impatient for it to materialise.
You see others as Machiavellian with ulterior motives to your well-being. You imagine this for real and sense these Machiavellian persons around you divulging to others your business and personal conversations. You sense that they want to sell out in the media. Giving your competitors a glimpse into the real you and damaging your brand. Sometimes you envy the people around you for moving ahead of you, because they seem to be happier in their life and going places, whereas you are still stuck in the same place with a large weight of responsibility to produce consistently when required of you. You feel the pressure even though you live in a nice residential area/work in a private or creative employment space/engage with satisfying relationships. At times you want to do something shocking/outrageous/improper in order to engage in a momentum to get you out of the rut, because you know that time equals money and you want a certain attention that you believe gains you a vehicle for an alternative or additional income. There it is again, that engrossed idea of celebrity culture and the culture of instant gratification. Frivolous and fleeting though it is, it flutters like a butterfly in your mind.
Then there is resistance around you and within you, even if you are doing what others ask of you. Even if you believe that you could do better on your own terms.
There is more. So much more that needs addressing to enable a better re-alignment to your situation in the here and now. Click on this RISE link. Add your name and email address (Operamail, Yahoo!, Gmail or other) to find out more. Let’s get things moving in the correct momentum for you sooner rather than later to please your well-being.
